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⌈ Secret Post #3152 ⌋

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[Biolabs (Ragnarok Online)]

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[moving gif - that Hulk/Black Widow porn one]

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[Dresden Codak]

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07. [SPOILERS for Borderlands 2]
[WARNING for abuse and stuff]

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[Final Fantasy X]

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10. [WARNING for rape]

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12. [WARNING for underage/sexual assault, transphobia]

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How do you define a good man, Not a "nice guy", and not a dudebro, just a man who can be considered a good man.

I guess someone who genuinely follow his moral compass, whether it's convenient or not, and acts in the benefit for those around him.

Takes responsibility for his actions
Accepts consequences, for good or ill
Tries to help others
Is reasonable and fair
Has empathy and is willing to look at things from other people's points of view

All good things.

be a dead man

wait, dont freeze this yet!

I mean hat in the Call no man happy until he is dead sence. You cant call a man good or not while his life is still rolling, because at any moment he could reveal himself as a wifebeater.

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Don't even bother.

cbrachyrhynchos - 2015-08-22 00:06 (UTC) - Expand

Someone who does more good than harm. Be conscientious and sympathetic of others and you're all set.

A good person who happens to be male?

Same as a good woman, but on average, taller.

Someone who provides for and protects the people he cares about, over all other considerations

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Be good.

Same as a good woman, but also closes his legs on the subway.

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Treat people with respect, take responsibility for your own actions, be willing to sacrifice for others when necessary. I would also argue that one must be considerate and thoughtful of other peoples' experiences and positions.

A man who is capable of violence when necessary, but is not predisposed to it, and never uses violence in a way that hurts those he holds dear.

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1) is a good person

2) does NOT believe that they're better than a comparably-good woman because they're a man or that men have a lower bar for qualifying as "good" than women do.

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NAYRT but guessing

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dunno

i go for assholes personally

Someone who opposes the MRA.

(Anonymous) - 2015-08-22 03:54 (UTC) - Expand

Steve Rogers.

As a man, you have to be willing to take stock of your supplies and prospects and assess them objectively. You cannot let your stores deplete! men do out of laziness, which is a weakness. It's not that being weak is bad all the time, but laziness is the kind that is bad.

Did you leave the laundry in the dryer over the weekend? You're not a man. Did you put off changing the oil? You're not a man.

I bet you sat and scratched your balls today while you watched reruns of the Daily Show. I bet you did. Does that make you a man? No. It doesn't. It makes you a lump with man parts that you scratched.

If you're hungry, you should make your food, not waste your money. You got takeout again. You're not a man.

The earth is dying. You could've recycled that and you didn't. You're not a man.

Your supplies are dwindling. When was the last time you got more than average on a review at work? If it's been more than one review period, what are you doing? Get more supplies.

You're crabwalking through life. I see you sidestepping and sliding back into your shell. You should be living and letting yourself show. You are not a man.

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Jimmy Carter.

Also, fuck cancer.

Someone honest, caring, compassionate and who can stand on his own two feet when he has to. Someone not afraid to ask for help and someone who is willing to help others. Someone who keeps their word and is responsible when they need to be.

"I made sure she didn't know how fucked up I was" or "I never raped anybody" is not an effort and you don't get to pretend it is.

Being too cowardly to admit you fucked up and face the consequences of somebody being angry at you is pretty much the opposite of a good man.

Oh. And if you impregnate someone, don't be the jerk who has to be nagged into helping your very pregnant wif with things.

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Actually put forth an effort to treat women with respect.