[ SECRET POST #3156 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3156 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Spider Riders]


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04.
[Shameless]


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05.
[The Mighty Boosh]


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06.
[Glitch]


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[Fire Emblem: Awakening]


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[Kaikisen]


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09.
[Kingdom Hearts 2]


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[Yu-Gi-Oh]














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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think anyone's entitled to any explanations, especially if they've been a bad friend or partner. People always think they're entitled to know why someone is breaking up with them in the misguided belief that they can argue their way out of it, or that knowing will somehow make them feel better... but that's just an illusion.

"It's not working out" is explanation enough, and frankly, if you're dumping someone that's pretty obvious.

[diet_poison]

That's not always true though. Sometimes people want an explanation so they can have closure.

But "it's not working out" sometimes is the best explanation. I just hate it when people leave their (non-abusive) partner completely in the lurch without any parting words at all.

[(Anonymous)]

To me, closure falls under the "knowing will somehow make them feel better" category, and it's an illusion. You can't expect other people to give you closure, it's something you have to do for yourself or realize that life isn't that tidy.

[diet_poison]

I disagree with that. Closure to me isn't about making me or anyone feel better in the short run. It's about being able to move on in the long run, and sometimes it's harder at first, but it is important. And it might have to do with different peoples' ways of processing things but for me a drop-off or fade-out is much harder to process in the long run than a formal break.