[ SECRET POST #3157 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3157 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Screaming thread

[caerbannog]

I just want my poor sister (she has PTSD, depression and chronic dental problems of pain and the dodgiest of boss' :/)to stop calling me so much. She says she won't (let's limit to one call a week pls) and then she does and I'm just so tired when I get home from work the last thing I want to do is be stuck in a 30 min conversation of her venting.

So the minute my phone is ringing after 6pm I want to scream because I know it's her. (I only answer once a week now)

ARGH :/

Re: Screaming thread

[(Anonymous)]

Aw man, I'm sorry you have to go through that. :(

Re: Screaming thread

[caerbannog]

Thanks :( she's got it shitty but on the other hand sometimes I just want to go home and not be locked into a phone call :(

Re: Screaming thread

[(Anonymous)]

I can empathize with both parties; being the one sick of listening to problems, and being the one with too many problems. Both situations suck. Seems like your problems is dealing with her after work. Do you not have any free days off, or do you not want to bother with her venting call on your free days either? You could try and lay down rules you don't want to hear about her problems in a negative venting way, since you already have some rules established with her, and stop her if she starts venting. Or either tell her you want a break from the calls for awhile because you;re tired. I know that's what my therapist used to suggest. I'd just tread lightly because it could blow up in your face if she takes it the wrong way.

Re: Screaming thread

[diet_poison]

Oh man.

Is she getting help for her mental issues? Also, how old is she?

I know when I was in high school I tended to rely heavily on two people and I wore both of them out. It took a lot of convincing to realize that I needed to get help and address my own issues and build an actual support network rather than just going to my mom all the time who already had a lot on my plate. I was depressed and sometimes suicidal and it wasn't pretty, but it creates real emotional strain on others, too. :(