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⌈ Secret Post #3159 ⌋

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[Knights Errant]

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06. [SPOILERS for Tales of the Abyss]

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07. [WARNING for rape]

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08. [WARNING for sexual assault/harassment]

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09. [WARNING for child sexual abuse]

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That's your issue, not mine. I was an adult in my own mind and definitely ready for what I wanted. Americans tend to be puritanical. But no one got hurt, I didn't get pregnant, we practiced safe sex, and I learned wonderful things about my sexuality and how to be assertive about my sexual needs, which a lot of women in my age group still haven't learned, as far as I can tell from conversations I have with my friends. I've always felt lucky.

I'm glad you found some way to make your life meaningful. I'm sure others (in the US I presume) would not have such a charitable view.

You are so odd.

nayrt

i think we have these vice-versa way of thinking...

but anyhow, you have most deep perspective in life.

"meaningful"

oh my god you have issues

But you weren't an adult, you were a precocious kid who opened her/himself up to all kinds of dangerous situations. No matter how you justify it to yourself. Where were your parents or any adult presence other than the ones who took advantage of you sexually? I feel bad for you. Even if you tell me to go fuck myself for this opinion.

Wow. You have no idea beyond your own little worldview, back the fuck off.

First time I've ever seen California as a red state!

That was a lot of damned hard work to be taken advantage of. I mean I had to evade my extremely strict Old Country parents and then sneak into clubs and stalk my prey over by the amps stacks and then cut them away from the pack. I don't think I've put quite as much effort into anything since. But thank you deeply for your earnest concern. We'll be sure to give you a gold star at the next Judgmental Parenting meeting.

See, now this is an argument to get your kids involved in sports. Tire em out...

And people wonder why men treat women the way they do.

What. The. Hell.

you a shit

you eloquent

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No need to wonder why some men don't want women to learn what makes for a good sex partner.

Well see, when I was 15, I very nearly got taken advantage of by a 30 year old man who hung out with us when I was drunk. At the time I didn't think anything of it, but now at 25, I'm horrified by how close I came to being assaulted and how easily it could've happened if I had been more desperate for male attention. And I later found out that he ended up raping my 16 year old friend at some point.

Your good experience doesn't suddenly outweigh the myriad of young girls who get taken advantage of. Granted that works both ways, but it's better to be safe than sorry.

What the fuck is THIS. Someone is defending their own experience as valid and okay for them, that is ALL, and you're telling them, no, BLAMING them, for other people's negative experiences. You're a real arrogant tosser.

Holy overreaction, Batman!

Jesus, what is this comment?

Okay, scream and project (where did they even say they blamed estefee???) at an anon recalling how they'd nearly been sexually assaulted as a teen. Fuck off.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-08-29 12:12 (UTC) - Expand

I'm very sorry to hear about your experience. Our situations were different for a host of circumstances I won't go into. Suffice to say I believe there are ways for young people to experiment sexually *with each other*, as I did, without it turning into an assault situation. Caution is always important, of course. But making young women afraid to try if they want to is a bad idea because feminism.

Perhaps you won't agree with me but I'm happy to leave it at that.

Edited 2015-08-29 06:15 (UTC)

(Anonymous) - 2015-08-29 09:26 (UTC) - Expand

esteefee - 2015-08-29 10:08 (UTC) - Expand

Not sad at all, sounds like an awesome time. I wanted to do all those things, new about safe sex, but was terribly repressed. Am still dealing with insecurity w/ my sexuality. KUDOS TO YOU!

Thank you! But as I said, I've always felt lucky. Kudos to you for how far you've come and all the great sex in your future. :)