[ SECRET POST #3160 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I don't really remember how it went down, but I do remember thinking of it as "pushy" and later wondering in hindsight if it was creepy.

So while admitting my memory of the show isn't great, let me just say I do think this post demonstrates how often we mistake people for being "socially awkward" or "withdrawn" and so on when in actuality, they're creepy. They're mean. And so on. My sister's (ex, thank god) boyfriend seemed quiet and not willing to socialize with the family - true, but only because he wanted to control her, and we were an influence he didn't want her to have anything to do with.

(Yes, I know, Urkel was the other extreme and almost stalked Laura. Just saying.)

[(Anonymous)]

It probably makes more sense to think of it as these things being two basically orthogonal scales. Where someone places on the goodness/meanness scale has no real relationship to where they place on the awkwardness-withdrawnness-quietness/smoothness-extraversion scale.