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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-06 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3168 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3168 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Criminal Minds]


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[Community]


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(Harry Potter, Yu-Gi-Oh)


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[JerryC]


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[J.K. Rowling/Harry Potter]


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[Kingdom Hearts: Dream Drop Distance]


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[Hatfields & McCoys]


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[Proof]


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[Brooklyn Nine Nine]


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[Scarlett Johansson]


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[No Escape]











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Re: Am I being irrational?

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-06 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not being irrational, you're being reasonable.

I guess as a camgirl you might be used to sometimes having to deal with discomforts/squicks to give clients what they want, but here you lost out on income because you had a hard limit. That's okay, even in professional lives we have personal boundaries.

I'm guessing you might be asking if it's okay to feel uncomfortable with using a word that a black person said was okay for you to use, if you're not black, especially if you're white. If you are, I can't answer that, but given how much hate and harm there is around that word, using it in a racial humiliation context no matter why, I think a hell of a lot of people would be nope to the fuck about that. And that's okay.