[ SECRET POST #3170 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3170 ⌋

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Comments

Re: OP update

[kitelovesyou]

If you go back and read this: I don't think you did anything really wrong, if I'm reading this right, I know how it is when you want to address an issue in a relationship and the other person takes it as a criticism/attack, even when you say it isn't, because they might feel vulnerable/insecure, orrrrr see you as not quite stable/liable to be a loose cannon.

You need to air your issues with the relationship in as respectful and honest and straightforward way you can EVEN if it is unpleasant for her to hear. You matter too, your feelings and issues matter too, better in than out. (The only time you ideally shouldn't is when they or you are in a temporary fragile state, but your feelings and concerns matter!) And I hope she wouldn't do this (my ex did) but DON'T let her block out/dismiss/sideline/minimise your issues/concerns/boundaries with the relationship through making you feel guilty for making her feel crap for hearing them.