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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3172 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3172 ⌋

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Re: Unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Disclaimer: I'm on the autistic spectrum

I hate when people on the spectrum expect neutrotypicals to tolerate some of the more annoying or terrifying behavior. Obviously no one should be bullied, but no one should have to have a one sided conservation about train engines (or whatever your special interest is) or deal with adult temper tamtrums.

(High-functioning people should aim to be as neutrotypical as possible so they can support themselves and avoid leeching of their family.)

Re: Unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not autistic, but having friends and friend-of-friends on the spectrum, I think it's about neurotypicals being understanding. Like, if my friend talks about "train engines" nonstop, I realize she's caught up in it and I have to deal, but I have also learned how to politely redirect her towards a more two-sided conversation. So I don't patronize her, but I also don't avoid her because of behaviors I know she works on, but can't always help.