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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3172 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3172 ⌋

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(Ollie Locke)


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(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
That's fair. I've been in their position before but not quite as bad, so people could convince me sometimes. I'll keep being there for them and hope I don't mess up somehow.

(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
You're doing good, just do what you do. No pressure to fix them or be a "good enough" friend, because you seem like you're already there. The main thing is don't treat them different. Excessive sympathy or treating them like they're fragile is just as bad as cutting them out of your life, IME. Odds are they're already thinking "what's wrong with me?" every hour on the hour.

(All advice should be tailored to your individual situation, of course. I'm talking out of my last 15 years of depression and friends drifting away from me as a result. YMMV)