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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-12 03:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3174 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3174 ⌋

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Re: Times you bit your tongue

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-12 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, none of your business. Keep your judgement to yourself, that kid is in no way being abused, even if you think you know and disapprove of his mother's lifestyle.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-12 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Did I say he was being abused? No, I fucking did not.
kitelovesyou: butterfly scales (Default)

Re: Times you bit your tongue

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-12 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Being concerned enough to interfere in a parent's parenting means you think that child is suffering in a serious way, yes?

If you don't think the child is suffering seriously, then know that it is absolutely NEVER your place to tell a stranger parent where to go; it is the height of arrogance and rudeness.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-12 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Your first statement is flawed. Your second is correct and also why I didnt say anything. So stop trying to give me morality lessons.
kitelovesyou: butterfly scales (Default)

Re: Times you bit your tongue

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-12 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
The first assumes you're not an arrogant rude person because you know that parenting should be by default respected unless there's abuse.

You asked for our opinion on the morality of this, didn't you?

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-12 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Not in the slightest. Did you see a question mark?
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Re: Times you bit your tongue

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-12 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
"I know I shouldn't have... but I still feel bad..." confession-type format comments are really common in this community about secrets, and is understood to invite opinion/discussion/debate. Obviously you aren't interested in that, so my bad.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-13 08:11 am (UTC)(link)
Jsyk, there are several conversations that could have come out of the original comment other than "omg, you should NEVER DO that thing you didn't do!" You just apparently weren't interested in having one that didn't let you school someone.
kitelovesyou: butterfly scales (Default)

Re: Times you bit your tongue

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-13 08:17 am (UTC)(link)
Um, I gave my opinion, which is one of many possible opinions. Mine was that it would be rude. Unless it was abuse.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-13 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I was just pointing out that your assertion that OP "obviously wasn't interested" in having a conversation was full of holes. Because there's a difference between not wanting to talk to you, "Miss or Mr. Let Me Teach You About Things That Aren't Your Business" and not wanting to talk about parenting or nutrition or weight.

Short version: Just because someone doesn't want to be educated by you, doesn't mean they don't want to converse about topics relevent to their post.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-13 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, you're really gunning for the worst possible interpretation :( OP/you said they weren't interested in hearing a differing opinion.

Re: Times you bit your tongue

(Anonymous) 2015-09-13 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
^ argh I got logged out, this is ayrt/kitelovesyou