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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-27 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3189 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3189 ⌋

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Re: Third Wheel

(Anonymous) 2015-09-27 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I am always the third wheel, so I feel ya! (Sort of made worse by the fact that I don't want to be, but whatever, different story for a different day.)

My advice is for the partners you like/will be in your life for the indefinite future (i.e. they have married your friend), really get to know them and make them your friend too. There are some couples in my life where I started out only knowing one, but their husband or wife is now an equally good friend. I think some of the awkwardness can come when you and your friend's partner are only hanging out because of the friend.

Of course, if it's a partner you hate or a casual fling, you can always specifically schedule time for just the friend alone. Make up some excuse about ~girl talk~ or whatever, or be upfront about it, whichever works.