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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-27 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3189 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3189 ⌋

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Re: Unpopular Opinions Thread

(Anonymous) 2015-09-28 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Sure, I pretty much agree with all that.

I think maybe where it falls down is that I think it's incredibly tricky to find a way to express attraction to women that won't be considered creepy (in this specific subset of the Internet). I don't see a way to do that. Now, again, this is something that I have issues with & maybe I'm just writing my own problems onto the broader internet. But it seems to me, maybe, that's where the structure you're talking about does not quite extend. And that's pretty much all I mean.
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Re: Unpopular Opinions Thread

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-28 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah you know, that's true. I think some of it is women often not wanting to give men the benefit of the doubt because of other negative experiences (plus, being given the message that men are always sexually predatory). But how do things change then? I think there needs to be less of a divide in how women and men talk about sex, and with each other! Perhaps a bit more trust, where a dude in a community is obviously a decent person in other ways.