[ SECRET POST #3194 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3194 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Slightly Damned]


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05. http://i.imgur.com/qfWqSrh.png
[fandom!secrets]
(french oil painting, op warned for nudity)


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07. [SPOILERS for Overlord]



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08. [SPOILERS for Until Dawn]



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09. [SPOILERS for The Shepherd's Crown]
[WARNING for RL death]














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Comments

Re: Questions? Advice?

[(Anonymous)]

If you're a girl and want to be spammed by creepers (or just want attention), go for it.

If you're a guy, high probability you're going to have to do the heavy lifting.

Additional awkwardness might ensue when someone who wants to be your SO keeps their profile online while you've already removed yours.

Never ever ever do long distance from the get-go. Even transitioning to long-distance is heartbreak waiting to happen, but don't keep the relationship entirely online.

Re: Questions? Advice?

[(Anonymous)]

Hey! Thanks for the feedback. I really appreciate it - it certainly reinforces a lot of what I've heard about online dating. At the same time though, I've kind of come to the conclusion that I online dating is the only way I can avoid eternal loneliness so I think it's something I should check out. It's just difficult getting started.

Re: Questions? Advice?

[(Anonymous)]

Go in with low expectations and lower standards and you'll be fine. But I can't emphasise enough how you do not want to be in an online relationship (eg, a relationship where neither partner intends to meet face-to-face). Also that the playing field for boys and girls are totally different.

Make sure the users of the site are in-line with your own interests and goals. There's the basic looking for long term relationships versus looking for quick fucks, but digging deeper there's also dating sites for special interest groups.

Make sure to do some research as, once you pick one (or a couple), you're going to have to put some personal information on there to get a bite or two. Like, imagine how skeevy it would be to be matched with someone with no profile picture, no birthdate (or birthyear), etc. If all you knew about your potential partner was their interests.

Re: Questions? Advice?

[(Anonymous)]

Seconding this. Long distance sucks, especially when your partner is a lazy douche who whines about you not being closer, but he lives off of his mother-while one year shy of thirty- and plays videogames all day while you're the only one working and can't afford to move to his expensive ass city alone! Yeah, don't go there.