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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-02 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3194 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3194 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Slightly Damned]


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05. http://i.imgur.com/qfWqSrh.png
[fandom!secrets]
(french oil painting, op warned for nudity)


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07. [SPOILERS for Overlord]



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08. [SPOILERS for Until Dawn]



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09. [SPOILERS for The Shepherd's Crown]
[WARNING for RL death]














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Re: Questions? Advice?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-10-03 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't want to meet someone, you don't have to. If you do meet someone and it sucks or doesn't hit the right buttons or they're a horrible person, you don't have to keep in contact.

It is okay to ignore people and possibly outright block them, there are a lot of dumb idiots of either gender who feel entitled to your time and attention. You don't have to.

Meet in public places. Go to the movies, dinner, coffee...always set up a start and end time so if necessary you can bail and don't feel obligated to hang around after the initial meeting/scoping each other out.

Might as well write down your dealbreakers. i.e. you want kids/don't want kids, pets etc.

Re: Questions? Advice?

(Anonymous) 2015-10-03 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the response & the advice.

I suppose it says something about my general point of view on the world that my concern is less that I'll be inundated with requests to meet up and that it'll be just too many to keep track of, and more that no one will ever respond to any of my messages with more than, like, a bored demand to go away

I don't know I got issues clearly. But seriously, thank you for the response, I'll try to bear those guidelines in mind.