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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-03 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #3195 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3195 ⌋

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Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-03 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, try talking to a man in a male only space. It's not un-toxic.

Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-03 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I'm a man, and I've had many one-on-one, heart-to-heart talks with my other male friends (as well as with my female friends), and I haven't noticed them being especially toxic - certainly, the ones with men no more than the ones with women. It's honestly really difficult for me to see how my close personal friendships with other men, who I love, are toxic, rather than being the kind of human connection that is necessary to a well-lived human existence.

I'm open to the idea that there's something I'm not seeing, but it might help if you would explain the precise source & nature of the inherent toxicity here.

Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I'm a man

Then you will never ever understand how damaging your boys clubs are to women.

I haven't noticed

Is the battle cry of the privileged

It's honestly really difficult for me to see

Which is exactly the problem. You will never be able to see all the harm this does. Stop trying to defend somthing you can't ever understand.

Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I swear, radfems make me wish I were a dude sometimes, haha. It sounds like being a Klingon.

Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
and you not dudebro enough. how about join them?

Re: Male only spaces

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
You wanna regather your thoughts and try again? That's not even coherent, I have no idea what you're trying to say.