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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-07 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3199 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3199 ⌋

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Re: depressed/anxious advice

(Anonymous) 2015-10-07 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
First and foremost, remember that the world is not rigged against you, and 99.9% of all the people you will ever meet do not mean to harm you or cause you grief. Even if you don't believe it, remember it. Write it down on a piece of paper and carry it with you, if you need to.

Believe me, I know it's scary to just do everyday things like normal people do, but when you can muster up the courage to just say, "Screw it", and DO the thing - celebrate when things turn out well. Savor your victory and reward yourself for successfully doing something that scared the shit out of you. Next time, remember how well it went and it'll be easier.

Most people are not thinking about you as much as you think they are. Those little things they say and do usually don't have deeper hidden meanings. It's not a sly jab at you or a hint that they're expecting you to pick up on. Mostly, people don't analyze what comes out of their mouths as much as we analyze what goes into our ears. Take people on their word, and don't freak out if that means there's a miscommunication from time to time. It's part of being human. We're flawed, and that's absolutely okay.

And if you get through something, whether it turns out good or bad, and then find you have to crawl into bed and cry for 20 minutes because of it, that's okay too.