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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-11 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3203 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3203 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-11 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm thirding the 'take a break' people, here. I have aspergers, and while my meltdowns aren't complete breakdowns, I know I have my limits and that I can overreact a lot because of not respecting them.

I recently took a week long break from all social media and it has been so relaxing. I know that it won't fix the stress I receive from it, but it's given me a lot of perspective on how I want to interact in fandom, and frankly it's been really nice to recharge.

Also, just because you blow up or have a break down doesn't mean you have to start all over again. I know it's scary to stick around if you do something you regret. It means you have to face whatever reputation you give yourself. But you know what? You just gotta apologize and move forward. Sometimes doing that means you can find the friends that are worth having, because the ones that are worth it will understand you if your apology and will to make things right is earnest.