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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-11 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3203 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3203 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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elaminator: (Hannibal: Will)

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-10-11 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
That background image is reminding me of the Hannibal opening...

As for the actual secret, I've definitely 'abandoned' online accounts before, but I've never done it by antagonizing anyone or creating drama; I just kind of faded away and stopped using them when all motivation left me. I've seen it happen many a time with fandom friends myself.

I think what everyone else is telling you, that you should tell your flist that you need a break from things then just cut online activity until you feel more stable, is a good plan. Try not to delete your account so you have the option to come back to it if you want, but get away from it for a while; you might need some alone time.

And if you do come back, try to set clear boundaries with your friends. If any of them are pressuring you to spend a certain amount of time with them and you can't manage it, tell them as much.

Hopefully you can break the cycle, OP. I have faith in you! (Also, good luck with everything in general. I hope your life improves and you'll soon be in a better place mentally.)