[ SECRET POST #3206 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3206 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Assholes

[(Anonymous)]

I had a friend who stopped talking to a mutual friend because "she's going through a hard time and I don't do hard times." Somehow they remained friends long after I jumped ship.

Also, in high school a friend of mine was bullied all through a group project, and her teacher wouldn't let her switch groups... then gave her a failing grade. (Although in fairness, I wasn't in that class so maybe there's more to the story. But I know this friend well enough that I trust her account.)

Re: Assholes

[(Anonymous)]

I kinda get that one though? You can't be your friends' therapist and sometimes trying to be destroys the friendship.

Re: Assholes

[diet_poison]

Being friends with someone doesn't mean you have to be their therapist. Obviously there may be lot unsaid here, but the only info we have is that one friend was going through a hard time, and the other friend stopped talking to them. Would you simply cease contact with someone when you hear that something bad happened to them? That's pretty high up there on the asshole scale if you ask me.

Re: Assholes

[(Anonymous)]

First anon, and exactly. If my friend were being needy or only talking about her problems I would totally get it. But IIRC things weren't perfect and she was a bit down and sometimes talked about it, but that was really... it. No, this friend had other bad moments too, it wasn't just that. In the end I think she was a very cold person.

Re: Assholes

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT - Trust me, she meant "my friend isn't skipping down the sidewalk and I can't be friends with her when she's not chipper." The girl wasn't trying to make anyone her therapist. :/

(Because I did have a friend who seemed to want therapists, not friends.)