[ SECRET POST #3207 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3207 ⌋

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Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

I used to be part of a small-ish fandom group (about 20 people or so) and after a big drama fallout, I left the group for about a year or so. I mostly did so because I don't handle conflict well, I was having a lot of anxiety issues, and one of the group members really had it out for me (I can't remember what set them off, but I do remember being outright happy when they were temp-banned, since that meant I wouldn't get harassment from them, and that probably fueled more of their rage towards me). When I finally came back, I did so very casually (ie. "Hey, what's up guys, how's everyone doing?") and I'd occasionally chime in with whatever project I was working on at the time. Everyone seemed fine aside from that one person, and they still had a grudge against me after all that time, so I decided to just cut my losses and leave for good. I'd rather not have to do through the whole drama shit again when I finally felt better. Left some good friends, but I could already tell history would repeat itself and I'd end up getting into trouble again.

Maybe it's for the best you just find someone else, OP. If they're going to get upset over something like that, just leave. It's not worth it in the end. You'll find a better group someday.