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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-15 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3207 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3207 ⌋

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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-10-16 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
It is important to know how you left, as others have said.

But if what you said was just "hey I need to take a break ttyl" (which honestly is sort of what I assumed) and they reacted like that, then you should cut your losses. I'm sorry this is happening, especially since you've apparently gone through it before, and losing friends sucks ass, but there ARE better friends out there.

In the meantime maybe you should examine your patterns. Do you lose friends because of the way you flounce or other things about your behavior? Do you lose them because you tend to gravitate towards negative groups of people? A bit of both? Something else? Try to not fall back into the same patterns as before. Seek groups that are accepting and stable, and work on your behavior if you have to (it's ok, we all have to do it, and yes, I have mental health issues, so I've especially had to deal with it).

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-16 12:26 am (UTC)(link)

But if what you said was just "hey I need to take a break ttyl" (which honestly is sort of what I assumed)


That's what I assumed OP meant, too. I don't get why all the other anons seem to think it was some dramatic outburst.

And honestly, even if it were something dramatic... I've done it too in bad times. Friendship's about apologizing and forgiving. People fight. You know?