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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-15 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3207 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3207 ⌋

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Re: being nice online

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-10-16 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Most of the time I just offer to listen to people's problems. Refrain from giving advice unless they ask for it. Refrain from cliché assurances that everything will be okay.

A good practice is just trying to understand how much someone's situation sucks and acknowledge their difficulty rather than just offering trite hugs or "fixing" it for them.

Re: being nice online

(Anonymous) 2015-10-16 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
"Refrain from giving advice unless they ask for it."

Maybe follow your own advice once in a while.

Re: being nice online

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-10-16 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
This thread asked for advice though.

Spoilers: I actually don't give advice if someone asks me not too. :)

Re: being nice online

(Anonymous) 2015-10-16 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Oh come on, an anon community where people talk about their Stuff and others respond is different from established friendships.

Though he probably shouldn't have responded at all to the anon who specifically asked him not to offer advice.