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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-15 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #3207 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3207 ⌋

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Re: being nice online

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-10-16 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
If say someone I'm following seems to be having a hard time or something shitty happened, I generally just go the short route.

- "holy shit i hope you're okay"
- "oh man it sounds like you're having a tough time, I hope things work out"
- "That totally wasn't your fault, but hopefully it will work out"
- "That's really shitty man, i hope you're going to be okay"
- "i'm sorry to hear things are sucking, how is it going now?"

Paraphrased examples of recent messages but basically acknowledging something was shitty + showing I am concerned by hoping things get better, but no attempting to explain things away or "happens for a reason" type shit.

(for #3 context was blaming themselves for something that was clearly another person's fault)