[ SECRET POST #3207 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3207 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice thread #realtalk

[(Anonymous)]

OP, it's entirely possible that your friends are callous, judgy people. But. And this is a big BUT. You have a history of melodramatic, burn-the-bridges exits from your relationships. YOU. Not your friends. You do this. Now let's look at that secret:

http://i.imgur.com/9k3DNqw.png

"antagonize all my fandom friends"
"burn all my bridges"
"delete my account, create a new one and start over"

You seem to feel that you're being unfairly labeled as "dramatic" and "passive aggressive". Reread the above quotes a couple times. Those are your words describing your actions. It seems to me that"dramatic" and "passive aggressive" accurately describe your modus operandi in situations like this. Your friends are judging you, but they're not necessarily wrong. You know that this is destructive, unhealthy behavior, but now you're trying to deflect responsibility for your actions onto your friends. Could this be why the cycle repeats itself with regularity and you don't know how to stop it?

Take responsibility for your actions, OP. You have a mental illness. I hope you're getting help for it in the form of therapy and/or meds. If you aren't, then that's something you can do for yourself. What you can't do is blame other people for the decisions you've made. I say this with love, OP: get help. There is no reason why this needs to happen, but it will keep happening if you don't take some steps to figure out what's going on with you that motivates you to behave this way.