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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-17 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3209 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3209 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm shit at most of what I do. I have poor technical skills (it takes me forever to cook, I'm often imprecise in my manual work) and it sucks. I had a meltdown during my internship because of it, and because I thought I shouldn't need help for that, so I kind of get how you feel, I think. So what I'd say to you is

1)Just because you're not good at something doesn't mean you have no value as a person/that you deserve to not exist/you will never ever contribute to anything in a significant way. Perhaps you just haven't found "your" thing yet.

2)Maybe you're raising the bar too high and your "good" is everyone else's "I-do-this-shit-since-I'm-six-perfect". I used to draw a lot when I was young and I thought I was pretty good. I got upset with my drawing skills because I thought I was just parroting the drawing style of my favorite cartoons. Instead of finding my own style I more or less stopped. Now I regret having been too harsh on myself.

Either way, hang in there. Your ability to do thing =/= your value as a human being. I'm sure you have plenty of qualities you aren't even aware of.