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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-17 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3209 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3209 ⌋

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Re: complaints/whining thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this a one time thing, or do they regularly exclude you for reasons you can't figure out? If it's a one time thing, then I think maybe your perspective is a bit skewed at the moment. It feels bad, there's no disputing that. But it feels bad because you're at a low point and EVERYTHING feels bad and like a personal attack, not because it really is something terrible. Does that make sense?

When friendships fail, it's usually not a mystery, tbh. The reason why they're mysterious to some people is... well, I'm sorry, but it's usually because the person in question is oblivious to the cause(s). Are you a good friend to people? Do you try to emulate the kind of person you'd like to have as a friend? Are you reliable, trustworthy? Do you reciprocate when people do nice things for you?