[ SECRET POST #3209 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3209 ⌋

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Comments

Re: complaints/whining thread

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, between this and the previous thread, you're coming off as pretty clingy and melodramatic. A friend isn't a conjoined twin. They're not obligated to take you everywhere, and it's normal and healthy to do things apart, either as smaller subsets of a larger friends group, or with other groups of friends entirely.

Maybe the thing they're doing is their thing together. Maybe you said something that made them think you weren't interested/were too busy/were broke. Maybe they could only score two tickets. Maybe they just feel like hanging out together because that's the dynamic they want right now. Chances are, whatever their reasons are, it's not really about you - not inviting someone along is rarely about specifically excluding that person.

It's perfectly fair to feel a little disappointed if it's something you wanted to do, but crying all day and deciding it means your friends aren't really your friends is a serious overreaction. If it's a reaction you have a lot, there's a good chance other people are picking up on it even if you think you're being subtle, and that's going to push them away. You need to find a way to get yourself out of that mindset. Talking to a counselor might help, if you have access to one.