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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-19 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3211 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3211 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Jim Carrey]


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03.
[Disney's Descendants]


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04.
(City of Angels)


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05.
[Die Hard/Die Hard 4]


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06.
[Pacific Rim]


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07.
[Sandi Toksvig, Stephen Fry, QI]


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08.
[Undertale]


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dani_phantasma: (angel kitten)

I hope all this comes out right....

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2015-10-19 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs if wanted OP. I think the fact that you realized your mistakes means you've grown up from that.

I can understand as I still feel guilt and secondhand embarrassment for the majority of things I did in my earliest fandom years, and I wish I could apologize for all the older fans who I bothered, annoyed,or accidentally offended I'm not entirely sure which of these applies for many of them. Maybe all three. Gulp.)

Apologizing for anything you did in the past is a good step, but it's probably not good to spend too long agonizing on messing up with one person. Just try to do better in the future I guess.
Edited 2015-10-19 23:11 (UTC)

Re: I hope all this comes out right....

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
and I wish I could apologize for all the older fans who I bothered, annoyed,or accidentally offended I'm not entirely sure which of these applies for many of them. Maybe all three. Gulp.)

Same here.

Re: I hope all this comes out right....

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
You can apologize to me. Come on, waiting for a decent apology.

Re: I hope all this comes out right....

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
You'd have to name yourself for it to be decent.
dani_phantasma: (unicorns in SPAAAAACE)

Re: I hope all this comes out right....

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2015-10-20 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
lol I'm not apologizing for writing what I enjoy or posting on this comm if that's what you want.

Sorry not sorry.

Re: I hope all this comes out right....

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude are you serious? You're the one who should be apologizing to her if anything.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Everybody makes mistakes OP. Don't be too hard on yourself.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
So go apologize to them, then? Instead of anonymously on the internet?
diet_poison: (Default)

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-10-19 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I assumed that this isn't someone OP is in contact with?

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
FWIW... it may have been them. I don't know how you came across obviously, but it's possible they weren't prepared for that engaging of a conversation and it had nothing to do with you personally.
forgottenjester: (Default)

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2015-10-19 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
It is what it is, OP. Misunderstandings happen. Just keep goin'.
elaminator: (Lord of the Rings: Gimli)

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-10-19 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
We have no way of knowing how this conversation went down so I don't know if it's as bad as you make it out to be, but I don't necessarily see anything wrong with saying, "I love -insert thing here-, but not so much -insert other thing here-." As long as you didn't go on and on about how that song or album was the worst thing in the world and anyone who likes it must have the shittiest taste, it probably wasn't as insulting as you think.

But anyway, if you did come on too strong or sound like you were questioning their knowledge that's unfortunate, but people make mistakes. Apologizing to the person this happened to would be a good step (if you even see this person on a regular basis); maybe they would even be open to a conversation? If not, well, at least you'll stop cringing so much when you think back on it.
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[personal profile] raspberryrain 2015-10-20 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you appreciate this video, and its weird inaccuracies, even more than I did.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VudcjApr46g