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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-27 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #3219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Suicide Squad]


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02.
[Dragonlance Legends]


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03.
[Takehiko Inoue's "Real"]


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04.
[Avatar the Last Airbender/Legend of Korra]


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05.
[Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis]


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06.
[The Twelve Kingdoms]


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07.
[Dramatical Murder]


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08.
[Hemlock Grove, Bill Skarsgard]


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09.
[Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D]


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10.
[Psycho]


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11.
[Outlander series, Dougal/Claire]










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(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Rape. There are no skeevy rape scenes between them. Own your kinks.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, own your kink, but don't call it what you want to call it, call it what someone else tells you to call it!

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not really owning it if you're hiding it behind more palatable language.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this 'all sex outside proscribe boundaries is rape' anon? Your stridency is showing if it is.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
1. I have no idea who or what you're talking about. 2. This is about "non-con" involving "lifting up her skirts and taking her" being rape.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-28 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Non con is rape. No duh. Some people get off on that. They're allowed. Fantasy is not equal to real life.

Otherwise there would be more dragons.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-28 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Well now you're just inventing things to pretend I said. So clearly there's no point in continuing.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Though I'm kind of lol'ing at you picking this battle here, right now, on F!S... Non-con is used for fanfic for a reason. That being, it can be used to refer to any non-consensual sexual actions even if they are not sex. Also, non-con distinguishes itself from dub-con, which are technically both rape in real world talk. As is, it's the fandom lingo, whether you like it or not.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-10-27 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to write for Literotica, a site that explicitly bans "rape." All this actually means is that you can't tag things with "rape," and it has an entire section for "noncon." Forgive me for thinking the distinction's a little arbitrary.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-27 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
That is weird, but the claim that the distinction is to "soften the impact" of the word rape is just silly. No one who reads/writes non-con would suddenly not read it if it was labeled rape. Non-con is, however, standard fandom vernacular, to be paired with dub-con, and to describe some things that might not be considered full sex but are still non-consensual.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-28 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
Right? I'm confused about why it's a big deal. IRL you generally wouldn't call a romantic couple (or a couple you hope will be in a romantic relationship) a "ship" or a "pairing", because that's fandom slang. Just like "non con" is fandom slang. It's not soft pedaling anything, it's just different terminology for a specific sub culture.