[ SECRET POST #3220 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3220 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

It kind of is, but mainly because you're relying upon media for your sense of purpose and happiness. Which is fine, up to a point. But sooner or later, most people realize that it's a little healthier if they to make their own goals and pursue hobbies beyond consuming what other people create. I don't mean that as harsh judgment, it's just that when you rely on other people for the joy in your life and don't do anything on your own behalf, that's a big risk.

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Agreed here.

[(Anonymous)]

it's just that when you rely on other people for the joy in your life

Isn't that basically the same as romantic pursuits or having children? I know a girl whose entire life is consumed by whatever guy she's currently interested in and another who only wants kids to fill a void in their life and feel some semblance of love. Yet those situations are considered normal by society.

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it's still not healthy though

[(Anonymous)]

Uh, not really? Superficially those situations may LOOK like what society thinks of as normal, but sensible people aren't actually advocating giving up your whole life for romance or having kids because you're emotionally needy. The key isn't in the action, it's in motive. I'm not dating my BF because I'm so consumed I need to sacrifice my entire sense of self worth to date a guy, I'm dating him because we're best friends and we love and support each other. I don't read books because they're the only thing keeping me from committing suicide, I read them because I enjoy reading. One is healthy, the other is not.