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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-30 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #3222 ]


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Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
If you want to fight back against MRAs, you need to be attacking the root cause, which is the militant feminists who aren't trying to do anything for women, but rather doing all they can to make themselves look better by crushing men down. Everyone involved needs to quit what they're doing because it clearly isn't working. Police your own damn groups for a while and see what happens. I'm saying this as a woman too embarrassed to call herself a feminist because it's gotten such a shitty reputation in recent years.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Be a decent person. Care for & be compassionate for human beings as human beings. Everything else comes second to that. But to me, the value of feminism is that it is a constant reminder of a way in which society is unfair and harsh which I think we have a tendency to ignore. In other words, the value of feminism is that it is a useful lens on how to be a decent person.

I also don't think you can entirely blame militant feminists for the existence of MRAs. I don't think you can entirely blame anyone for it, really, but I also think that the MRAs themselves have some responsibility.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
They don't realise that all this "disrupt the talk" shit is going to make the MRA's look like martyrs and themselves as basketcases. Hadn't they learn't the only thing strawmen comics actually teach you?

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah this. Trying to silence everything a group says doesn't tell people "they're bad and awful and need to be stopped". It tells them that you're afraid of what they could say.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
By that logic shouldn't we not be going after the militant feminists and instead attacking their root cause, which is sexism against women and a lot of old, sexist men in power in government?

But they have a root cause too, which is our messed up governmental system. So let's ignore all the people and change the system instead?

We can always go deeper.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
By god you're right! Let's just not do anything at all to fix the problem, because there will always be more problems!

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
That is literally the opposite of what I was suggesting.

What I was suggesting: OP's mindset of "MRA only exist because of radfems and if you got rid of all radfems everything would be peaches and those men would stop hating women" is wrong.

Conversely, if you got rid of the patriarchy, do you think those radfems would magically stop hating men? It doesn't work like that.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_azCIe_0Kk
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Re: Seriously though

[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-10-31 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
You don't have to stop dealing with one problem in order to deal with another as well. I've been vocally opposed to Teresa Jusino's racism and misandry on The Mary Sue, but I've also been positive towards other posters on the same site who take on misogyny.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Teresa Jusino's racism and misandry

You you can fuck off, you fucking asshole.
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Re: Seriously though

[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-10-31 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
She refers to mixed-race people as "mutts." There's no way of getting around that.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
chill out, dude

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
In short the reason women are hated is because other women and there's no other reason. Sure.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
you. i like you.

Re: Seriously though

[personal profile] lady_dragoon 2015-10-31 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
A picture is worth a thousand comments sometimes.
daddytexas: (aw yeah that's what i'm talkin' bout)

[personal profile] daddytexas 2015-10-31 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
/thread

ok everyone go home.

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
so much fingerpointing itt...

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
lol Rush Limbaugh is calling from the early 90s, he wants his schtick back...

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Lmaooo sure Jan

Or should I say, Auntie Tom

Re: Seriously though

(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 09:36 am (UTC)(link)
the "root cause" of the MRA movement is men who feel threatened by the idea of equality and are seeing their 1950s submissive wife fantasy deflate in front of their eyes, are pissed off that women are actually acknowledged as people, and men who want to justify the date rape their did during college