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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-30 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #3222 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3222 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[From Dusk Till Dawn: The Series]


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[Sean Bean/Accused]


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[Bones/Sleepy Hollow]


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(Anonymous) 2015-10-31 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
She may have meant it at the time, but that's the problem with people who have BPD. Their emotions turn on a dime and they swing between idealizing and demonizing people. They don't see the irrationality or conflict in their actions the way you or I do.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder#Manipulative_behavior

The entire entry is interesting, but you might find the above applicable.

Regardless, I'm not sure a diagnosis is relevant when it comes to deciding whether or not you want to be friends with a person. If someone is treating you badly, any mental illness they may or may not have doesn't justify or excuse their bad behavior. ESPECIALLY if they know there's a problem and they're refusing to seek treatment. You cannot fix a mentally ill person by agreeing to be their emotional punching bag, so don't do that to yourself.