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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-01 02:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #3224 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3224 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-11-02 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, it's difficult to put yourself out there, especially when you (and society as a whole tbh) puts a lot pressure on romantic success. it's easy to not to try at all because failure is scary. but problem with that is that you end up doing things you don't want to do because other option is safer. i've done that before in a lot of aspects of my life (and still trying to get over a some of them!)

but at some point you gotta decide if you'll actually be happy with the safe option or end up regretting it. and if you feel like you'll regret it, you gotta push through and at the very least try to do the thing you really want to do.

also this might not accurate for you so correct me if i'm wrong, but i'm assuming you're pretty introverted and don't put yourself out there all that much. if that's the case, you're not going to get much attention, much less romantic, because people don't know who you really are, not because you're unworthy of it.

but yeah, it's tough to do these sort of things when you're not used to it and have a lot of concerns about yourself. taking that first step will probably be one of the most uncomfortable ones, but once you start pushing through those anxieties, you'll get more used it and dating will come more naturally.

best of luck, anon! looking forward to that pizza. :)