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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-03 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3226 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3226 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Animal Crossing]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Excess Baggage]


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[Sue Perkins]


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[Mobile Suit Gundam: Iron-Blooded Orphans]


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[Vin Diesel]


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[Hemlock Grove]









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Sorry about early, have stuff to do!

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Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
you're partners. that means that among other things your sexual comfort is in her hands and her sexual comfort is on yours. regardless of all other factors, you have fucked up. if she felt wrong about what you were doing to her, then the buck starts and stops with you. you need to take some responsibility.

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
How? OP got her consent and she enjoyed it. Should he be able to read her mind?

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Don't ask the troll questions. That just makes it talk more.

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Shut the FUCK up.

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
If she's uncomfortable, then she has a responsibility to actually communicate that somehow. I doubt the OP is Professor Xavier; there will be no mind-reading here.

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
women don't have the responsibility to do jack shit to avoid being raped you victim blaming piece of shit

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
If I initiate sex with someone and decide five days later that I didn't like it, have I been raped?

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
So does it hurt having a plastic ring on a string coming out of your back?

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my actual God, you're one of those people who thinks we should "educate the mens that rape is wrong" and if a woman is being raped, she should lie back and think of England rather than shoot him in the face, aren't you.

What amuses me about people like you is that, on the one hand, you're all "oh, if we just tell men that rape is bad, they will change their behavior and it will be all sunshine and puppies," and on the other hand, you think men are Evil Scum of the Earth.
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Re: Trigger warning - Rape

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-04 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
hey, asshat, giving explicit consent means it wasn't rape. sorry not sorry.

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
PIV is rape tho

hth

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, go back to your pretend lesbian commune.
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Re: Trigger warning - Rape

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-04 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, you're one of those

yawn

Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
No. This is wrong.

Our partners can't do right by us if we don't tell them we're uncomfortable. Our partners can't do right by us if we tell them we like what's going on even when we don't. Our partners can't do right by us if our perceptions are skewed.

Humans can't read minds. We have to communicate with one another, and it's unfair and unhealthy to expect someone to know what we don't like and what makes us uncomfortable if we don't tell them, or if we lie to them about it. When it comes to sex, our comfort is the JOINT responsibility of both us and our partners.