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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-03 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3226 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3226 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Animal Crossing]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Excess Baggage]


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[Sue Perkins]


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[Mobile Suit Gundam: Iron-Blooded Orphans]


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[Vin Diesel]


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[Hemlock Grove]









Notes:

Sorry about early, have stuff to do!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 026 secrets from Secret Submission Post #461.
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Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, dude, this is not something you can ignore. I get that you are in a "can't compute" phase right now, but this is something you have to do something about.

From what I've gathered from this thread you are unwilling to talk to her or to any third parties, you are not going to break up with her, and you are basically just going to stop having sex with her forever. That is... not a healthy solution.

Considering that you seem to have had an active sex life up to this point, I would assume that you are not asexual (you gf might be, but that's another thing you may want to figure out) Someday you might want to have sex with her again, but if haven't dealt with this issue by then it will most likely grow to something a lot larger (whether that be guilt for 'taking advantage' on your part or trust issues or whatever).

Honestly even if you were able to put off sex forever there would still be this underlying trust issue. That is not healthy!! You seriously need to do something. If you don't want to deal with it face to face right now, write her a note or an email. Do it while it is still fresh. If you don't deal with this there's a good chance your relationship won't ever be okay again, because this is a really serious matter. Better to try to deal with it right off the bat rather than for it to simmer below the surface for ages.

It hurts, dude, I get it. But it is not something you can ignore. Man up and deal with it some way or another.