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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-03 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3226 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3226 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Animal Crossing]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Excess Baggage]


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[Sue Perkins]


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[Mobile Suit Gundam: Iron-Blooded Orphans]


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[Vin Diesel]


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[Hemlock Grove]









Notes:

Sorry about early, have stuff to do!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 026 secrets from Secret Submission Post #461.
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Re: Trigger warning - Rape

(Anonymous) 2015-11-04 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not convinced it's a good idea to stay in this relationship* but I see you're determined to hang onto this OP. My advice is therapy, NOW. For her, for you, possibly jointly and no sex until you guys hash this issue out. But frankly, this is messed up as fuck and it can get very, very ugly. You may love this woman, but you're risking a lot to stay with her. Ask yourself if it's worth it. Hint: if she won't get help for this or refuses to explain or discuss it, she isn't.



* "but I love her/him/them" is not nearly as compelling a reason to stay as people seem to think. You can love your partner but still be in an unhealthy, highly dysfunctional relationship. It doesn't mean you ought to stay. Ditto the issue of leaving someone who might be emotionally unstable-- that is not a good reason to stay, either. Ultimately, your partner's emotional well being or sanity CANNOT depend on your presence alone.