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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-05 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3228 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3228 ⌋

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Re: Choosing between sibling and friend

(Anonymous) 2015-11-06 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I can't really say what I'd do, because I feel like there's something missing between what went on between your sibling and your friend.

For myself, I usually go to great pains to avoid choosing a side, unless I was there for the whole blowout and saw it myself. Otherwise, there is so much conflict that is based around misinterpretations and unintentional inferences and it just escalates - especially when people's emotions are running high. I have seen it, when I've witnessed a fight, and both people have different accounts of what happened exactly. They're not usually lying, it's just that emotions are running high, and both people focus in on the parts that hurt them, and don't remember their hits as clearly (or think that their hits weren't as hurtful).

I don't know; that probably doesn't help you, but inserting yourself in the middle doesn't always work out either. I'm presuming everyone involved is a now an adult, and honestly, I'd just stay out of it.

Re: Choosing between sibling and friend

(Anonymous) 2015-11-06 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Still telling someone who was bullied in the past "you deserved everything you got" over petty disagreements is not and will never be okay.

Re: Choosing between sibling and friend

(Anonymous) 2015-11-06 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, it's a shitty remark, I totally agree on that.