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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-05 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3228 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3228 ⌋

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Re: Choosing between sibling and friend

(Anonymous) 2015-11-07 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Well, when I was younger, in middle school, I had a friend/ two who picked on my brother and I did not defend him. At times I even joined in on the picking on him. I regret that I did not defend him. I hurt him and our relationship very much (he was a little kid, and yes they get annoying, but I had no excuse. I was a coward and had no back bone and I wanted to be "cool"). Meanwhile, my best friend always stood up for him.

We went through a few rough years, and it's only now, about 8 to 10 years later that we're really getting along well. He had his time where he treated me like shit (because I treated him like shit).

In the end, the choice is yours.

My brother is still my brother, and in the end we've got only each other. My best friend is like my sister, and we've got each other. Those other girls that I was friends with (that now, after some life experience and back bone gaining, I would stand up to)...while I maintain our acquaintance, I no longer have an active relationship with them.