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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-07 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3230 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3230 ⌋

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Re: Anal Sex! (IRL, please)

(Anonymous) 2015-11-08 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
There's only one thing I know for sure about anal sex, which is that not everyone needs an insane amount of prep, even on their first time.

I'm a sexually inexperienced (but fairly sexually knowledge) female, and every time I've tried using a vibe vaginally, it just hurts and feels too big, no matter what I do. But the first time I tried using my vibe anally, it was just fine. I was all set to do a lot of prep, but it ended up being totally unnecessary. Almost zero prep needed; just a decent amount of lube and there was no pain to speak of.

It seems like a lot more people need a lot of prep than people who don't, so for the love of god, DON'T assume you can skip the prep. But a lot of fanfic writers seem hellbent on the idea that, In The Name Of Realism, they HAVE to include a long prep scene before anal, and it's inevitable that the bottom is going to be in some pain the first time anyway. That's just not true.

If you want to write hot and ready, very-little-prep necessary, first time anal, I say go for it! Because speaking from experience, anal penetration really is just that easy for some people. However, it's probably a good idea to lampshade the skeptics disbelief by writing something about how unexpected it is for the top, who's just like, "Really? You're seriously ready for me? Just like that? Holy shit!"