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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-11 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3234 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3234 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Golden Girls]


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02.
[Boku no Hero Academia]


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03.
[C.S. Lewis vs. J.R.R. Tolkien]


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04.
[Pokémon, Leah Remini]


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05.
[Tales of Zestiria]


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06.
[The Man In The High Castle]


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07.
[Marjorie Liu, Sana Takeda, Monstress]


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08.
[Sleepy Hollow]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 020 secrets from Secret Submission Post #462.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 2 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: TW: abuse

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-11-12 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry anon, sounds like you're going through some rough times.

I haven't had personal experience with this specific situation but I do think beating yourself up when you feel you've missed something obvious (especially when it comes to relationships) is extremely common. It isn't good (As you've said, you don't deserve any blame, you didn't do anything wrong and this person must be quite skilled at manipulation), but I hope you don't feel abnormal; it happens.

And yes, anger is natural too, especially if you're hurt and betrayed. Maybe with time some of that anger will fade away.

Good luck with everything.