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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-12 07:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #3235 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3235 ⌋

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Re: Whine about things here.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-13 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
No, you're not wrong for being upset. It's one thing if he wants to hang out with his friend. It's another if he bails on you last minute to do so. And entirely another if he dismisses your reaction as jealousy. It's just damn rude. And hell, it didn't occur to him to inform the girl that you guys had plans, especially because it was your birthday?

I hate to say it, but he might have something to hide if he's making you out to be the bad guy here. Yes, friends are important, but if he's letting her dictate how he spends his time, then he's either an idiot who can't think for himself, or he's not being honest about the nature of their friendship. I mean... accusing you, his longtime girlfriend, of being jealous and clingy because you were upset (rightfully) that he bailed on your birthday, is a rather defensive reaction. It's entirely possible they feel as close as siblings and/or he's protective of her, but that doesn't give him the right to suddenly drop you just because she's suddenly wanting some buddy time.