[ SECRET POST #3236 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3236 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Video Games, The Last Of Us]


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03.
[Akagami no Shirayukihime]


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04.
[Nameless ~The one thing you must recall~]


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07.
(The Librarians, Cassandra Cillian)


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08. [SPOILERS for Room (2015)]




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09. [SPOILERS for Hemlock Grove seasons 2 & 3]



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10. [WARNING for incest]

[Game of Thrones]















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Comments

Another Perspective

[(Anonymous)]

It probably makes sense to look at this as a list of 35 ways to follow, and more as a list of 35 things about the patriarchy that men are socialized to ignore.

Take the chores example. It doesn't make sense to expect a perfectly down-the-line division of chores in all circumstances. But it's absolutely true that men are socialized to assume an uneven division of chores, and frankly not even to notice that it exists. It's just something that men don't even think about. So whatever the equitable division of chores is - the point is that, if you are a man, this is something that you have to be consciously aware of and think about. And that's extremely far from being the case with men in general.

And I think you could say the same running down the list - these are things that men often do not even think about, so getting them to think about it is worthwhile even if in practice doing a lot of these things is more complicated than just "a 50/50 split". I mean, heck, when you get down to it praxis is ALWAYS complicated.

Honestly, I expect the only reason they formatted it like that is because a lot more people are liable to read it if it's formatted that way.