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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-13 07:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #3236 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3236 ⌋

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[Video Games, The Last Of Us]


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[Akagami no Shirayukihime]


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[Nameless ~The one thing you must recall~]


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(The Librarians, Cassandra Cillian)


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08. [SPOILERS for Room (2015)]




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09. [SPOILERS for Hemlock Grove seasons 2 & 3]



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10. [WARNING for incest]

[Game of Thrones]















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Re: How the hell do I fix this situation?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-14 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
I think wanting her to suffer is both unhealthy and mean-spirited. HOWEVER, wanting her to pay for the damage she caused is completely reasonable and it sounds like she basically got off scot-free, which is stupid, and I'm so sorry. :(

Insurance sucks, and people suck, and you should not have to pay for all this shit out of pocket, and accidents suck, and it all sucks. :(

Keep an eye out for the right car. Cars come and go quickly. You may find a new one that works better for you before too long. And I hope the pain goes away very soon.

Re: How the hell do I fix this situation?

(Anonymous) 2015-11-14 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I mean more like "face some kind of consequences" rather than actually suffer, but still, I know it sounds bad. It's just so incredibly frustrating to be going through all this when, like you said, she pretty much got off scot-free.

Like I told the other person, the insurance is covering physical therapy, at least. But because of the way the laws work, the insurance company is paying for it, not her, and I feel like she personally should have to pay for something. You shouldn't be able to completely ignore the road while driving, which SHE ADMITTED TO DOING, and not have to pay in SOME way.

My mom thinks I should hold off on selling the car and see how I feel once I get better, since the seats hurting me is really the only reason I don't like it, and I know that practically, that makes the most sense. She thinks the pain is just from being in an accident and that the car makes no difference. She could be right, I suppose...the only other car I've driven was a rental, which caused even more pain, and it was sooner after the accident, when I probably would have been in more pain anyway, regardless of the car. So I can't prove with 100% certainty that the car is making a difference.

I guess I need to just be patient about getting better. Like I said in the other comment, I always tell the patients I deal with at work that healing from a serious injury is not something that's going to happen overnight and they need to be patient so...I guess I need to take my own advice.
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Re: How the hell do I fix this situation?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-16 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
Question: is it your insurance paying for the physical therapy, or hers?