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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-16 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3239 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3239 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani]


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[Law & Order SVU/OZ]


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04.
[Unforgotten, The Fall]


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05.
[Gamer's Guide to Pretty Much Everything]


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[Markiplier]


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07.
[Law & Order SVU (John Munch)]


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08.
[Kaiji]








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kallanda_lee: (bucky paradoxengine)

Re: How do you start over?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-11-17 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Step by step really.

The first part is accepting that, distancing yourself from the original plan, and set things in motion to go on another course.

If you're the adventurous kind, it helps seeing this as a an unplanned adventure, or a blank slate in which you can paint again.

You might take the time to reinvent yourself - it's not necessarily, but it can actually help - new wardrobe, new hair, new friends.

Sometimes just trying or doing random stuff can help you figure out where you DO want to go.

Say yes to things. Especially things you haven't tried yet.

But it takes a while. Give yourself time. That's all I have.

Re: How do you start over?

(Anonymous) 2015-11-17 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
I never liked adventure or surprises. I am obviously so much more comfortable with firm plans. :P New friends would be great, because mine are kinda shitty. I also don't know how to get those. Bah. Life.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: How do you start over?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-11-17 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Are you in a position to pick up new hobbies?

Re: How do you start over?

(Anonymous) 2015-11-17 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Probably. I guess it depends on the hobby (no big initial investment type things).
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: How do you start over?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-11-17 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know where you are in life, but I find that post-college, that's often our best way of meeting people with common interests.

Re: How do you start over?

(Anonymous) 2015-11-17 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Makes sense. I guess I should start reading the events section of the paper or something.