[ SECRET POST #3239 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3239 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani]


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03.
[Law & Order SVU/OZ]


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04.
[Unforgotten, The Fall]


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05.
[Gamer's Guide to Pretty Much Everything]


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06.
[Markiplier]


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07.
[Law & Order SVU (John Munch)]


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08.
[Kaiji]








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Comments

Re: Sorry, I just need to rant.

[(Anonymous)]

A few things:

1) Remind her that you don't want this to be publicly known yet, so please no public discussion about your sex life and frankly, even when you're out to everyone you may not be comfortable talking about your sex life.

2) If it's really important, do not entrust people with a big secret and THEN tell them it's confidential. Say you have something you'd like to tell them, but you want them to keep it to themselves and then specifically ask if they can do that.

3) Sometimes people don't respect boundaries and confidences if there are no repercussions to them violating a trust or a boundary. Let her know you didn't appreciate that. You don't have to be mean about it, but you do have to be firm about your expectations for her silence.

But frankly, unless your suitemate is a giant airhead, this wasn't an accident. It's a sign you've misplaced your trust in this person. To be honest even if they ARE just a giant airhead, they can't be trusted because they're unreliable.