[ SECRET POST #3241 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3241 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Failing as an adult

[(Anonymous)]

Oh I definitely fail as an adult in most of the main, measurable ways. I'm nearly 30 and:

- The government helps support me due to mental health issues.
- I never went to post secondary so I have no qualifications to speak of.
- I'm Ace (I still have a sex drive, I'm just not attracted to anyone ever) so I have next to no sexual experience involving other people.
- I live with a parent.
- I never learned to drive.


But OTOH:

- I do pay rent, pay utilities, pay bills, buy groceries, do chores, etc.
- I am very good with managing money and paying off/avoiding debt.
- I at least have a part time job (the pay is shit, and the potential for advancement is nil, but the job itself is kind of interesting).
- The parent I live with treats me like an equal, completely and unequivocally. We do things to help each other but it's a two way street.
- Plus I really love living with him.
- I'm getting really good at using public transit.
- I do know a lot about what makes me tick sexually; it's just not other people


Which I guess is just to say that no matter how bad you fail at being an adult (I fail pretty badly), there are often important ways you don't fail too. And the ways you don't fail will often seem like nothing to you, but to someone else they're a big deal, and that other person is going, "If only I could be a good adult in that way."