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⌈ Secret Post #3243 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

I didn't know religion was a basic life outlook that partners needed to "align" with.

You do realize that being free to marry outside one's faith is kind of a big positive thing?

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Found the atheist.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

...actually I'm not atheist. However, my parents are mixed-religion.

And what does that mean anyway? Do you think that people should only marry within their religion?

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think people should only marry within their religion, but I do think that if someone chooses to do so they should not be judged or heckled for it.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I don't think so either. Religion is super-personal and definitely something that could be a reasonable dealbreaker.

However, diet_poison said that needing one's partner to align with one's religious beliefs was something "all people would agree on" which it absolutely isn't.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[diet_poison]

I'm sorry for coming across that way and I sort of see why you think that, but to clarify, I didn't say that. I was making a distinction between general things that are important to many people, and even if religion doesn't play a direct role, most people would have a very hard time marrying someone who has a radically different overall worldview from their own. To some people that's more separable from religion (or lack thereof) than others. I probably should have been more specific in my wording.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[diet_poison]

it is but to a lot of people it's important to marry someone who shares their faith. I'm free to do that too.

I don't really understand why you're going after that particular bit so vehemently...

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

You're being deliberately obtuse. I think many if not most people would prefer that their partner shares the same values as them, and for those who feel strongly about their religious beliefs (or lack thereof), they would naturally prefer a partner who more or less has the same ideas.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[diet_poison]

Thanks. You said it better than I did.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com]

Some inter-faith relationships can work, if both people can compromise in ways that don't strain their religious-based morals, but if someone is expecting their partner to go against the religious beliefs to make a relationship work and the religious person really cannot accept that, it is a dealbreaker.