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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-20 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #3243 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3243 ⌋

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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'll second the smoking and constantly getting drunk ones.

I also don't want to be with someone who owns guns, but doesn't work in law enforcement.
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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-21 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
That's one that honestly never crossed my mind. I think for me it would depend on why they own guns and how they're stored. If it's a hobby (like going to the shooting range) I'd probably be okay with it.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, obviously there are legit uses for guns out there, and if people want to do that stuff on their own time, go for it. For me it's just the fact that I don't feel comfortable being around guns in general, even if the person owning and using them is responsible. And if I ever did have kids, there'd be the added stress and worry of making sure they didn't stumble upon them, too.
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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-21 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I haven't really specifically thought about how I'd feel about guns being kept in my place of residence but when I do think about it, I'm leaning towards DNW, because I know I want kids one day. Certainly if they weren't always unloaded and locked away it would be a no-go. I'd be more comfortable with a partner keeping them somewhere else, like at a range, if he had to have them.
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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[identity profile] mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com 2015-11-21 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
Or living on a farm. (I have had an experience where I witnessed a farmer scaring off wild cockatoos with a rifle.)
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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-11-21 03:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Ironically, I don't know if I could marry someone who wanted to live on a farm. I'm too much of a city slicker and too extroverted. The country is nice, but being that far away from people for more than a couple of days actually starts to drive me batty with isolation.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I can see that. I might be okay with one or two guns, if they're stored securely and the person was well trained. But I'd be wary of someone who owns a ton of them because it just feels weird to me. I feel similarly about people who own bunches of cars, or roomfuls of clothes or a closet full of shoes. I suspect there'd be other ways our personalities would clash, too.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
If I ever met a guy who owns tons of guns, my first thought would be something along the lines of, "paranoid survivalist" or "heavily overcompensating". And that would have me backing away very quickly.