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fandomsecrets2015-11-22 03:58 pm
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Re: How much do you kinkshame?
(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)How do people not see that the whole fictional murder/eroticized noncon comparison just does not work?
If people went around eroticizing murder? Like, if we were meant to watch Criminal Minds with a hand down our pants? That absolutely would be the grossest and most messed up fucking thing. Would it be as gross and horrible as someone actually doing that stuff? OF COURSE NOT, the two don't even compare. But just because they're not in the same vicinity doesn't mean only one can be harmful and the other must be a-okay.
Re: How much do you kinkshame?
(Anonymous) 2015-11-22 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)I mean do you realize how many there are???
Obviously murder in criminal minds is not eroticized, and there are instances of fictional rape that are not eroticized, but good god so much of fandom loves characters that kill other characters, comparing criminal minds to hot murderers is about as off as comparing passion of the christ to eroticized fictional torture, the intent is different and that matters
Re: How much do you kinkshame?
(Anonymous) 2015-11-23 12:18 am (UTC)(link)Popular fiction that portrays the actual killing/raping/torturing as hot deserves to be soundly criticized and shut down, IMO. But then, I'm having a hard time thinking of anything I've read/watched that treated those things like they were hot. Maybe The Vampire Diaries (which I do find reprehensible, FWIW). But even there, the narrative had this wonky attitude where the killing and torturing was...sort of treated like it was supposed to be hot, but at the same time treated like it was very very bad and the character doing those things had to be stopped.
there are instances of fictional rape that are not eroticized
And those are the ones I'm okay with. It's pretty simple really.