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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-02 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #3255 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3255 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Paul Walker, Fast and Furious movies]


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03.
[Inuyasha]


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04.
[Z Nation]


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05.
[Hugh Dancy (and Claire Danes)]


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06.
[Jessica Jones]


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07.
[The Oatmeal]


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08.
[Star Wars: The Old Republic]


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[Harry Potter]










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(Anonymous) 2015-12-03 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I get it, OP. I've had the same thing happen before, albeit with different celebrities. Rationally, I know that I have -100000000% chance with any of them anyway, but... yeah, I don't really understand it. Personally, I feel really guilty about having my fantasies when I discover that they are actually in a relationship, regardless of the fact that they were likely in all sorts of relationships without my knowledge beforehand.

I don't know if it's some sort of guilty "I don't like fantasising about someone else's boyfriend/husband/partner/etc", but I just can't switch that part off, even when it's just fantasies. Them being single makes them 'accessible', them being in relationships makes them 'not accessible'. It doesn't matter the astronomically negligible chance of my ever even meeting them in the first place, my brain just seems to place importance on that fact, despite it changing precisely nothing in practice. Maybe it's also the "I'm fantasizing about this, but there's someone out there who has what I'm fantasizing about" line of thought, I don't know. What is seen cannot be unseen etc.